About Deborah

The longest journey is the one inward, and it changes everything

I'm Deborah. I walk that inward road alongside you, with care, curiosity, and a safe space for things to unfold.

Deborah Batres, AMFT, integrative psychotherapist in Santa Barbara

My Story

I help people feel more like themselves again

The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.

— Carl Jung

Who I work with

I work with adults moving through life transitions, relationship strain, anxiety, and the quieter weight that surfaces when things finally slow down. My work goes beneath the surface. I meet you where you are, and make it safe to set down what you’ve been carrying.

How I got here

I came to this work shaped by more than one chapter. Before becoming a therapist, I spent two decades founding startup companies and leading in corporate finance — work that taught me how much is at stake in human relationships, and in the value we place on our role within them. I bring that same care into the therapy room. I came to this clinical work as a calling, and it is the most meaningful work I have done.

Training & credentials

I hold an MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University where I completed two practicums, with postgraduate work at New Beginnings Counseling Center focusing on individual and couples work. I am a registered Associate MFT, with advanced training in polyvagal-somatic, emotion-focused, trauma-informed care, EMDR, and women’s mental health.

What I believe

I’m intentionally integrative, which means I adapt my approach to you rather than fitting you into one therapy model. I believe people have the innate wisdom to make the meaningful shifts they want in their life, I simply create the space where that becomes clearer.

What brings me joy

At home, I enjoy adventurous walks with my dogs through the Santa Ynez Valley, along with yoga, Pilates, and the mindfulness practice of gardening.

How I work

What I believe about how people change

A few things I've come to believe, through clinical practice and real relational work, about what actually helps people move forward.

You don't need to have the words ready

You don't have to know what's wrong, explain it well, or have done this before. You just have to show up. Figuring out what's going on, and what would help, is the work we do together.

High-functioning is not the same as whole

Many of my clients are accomplished and managing life well on the outside, while carrying something that's gone unaddressed for years. I'm attuned to the particular exhaustion that high-functioning people know well.

Change begins with curiosity

Change doesn't begin with having it figured out, it begins with curiosity. The willingness to turn toward what isn't working, to understand it rather than just manage it, is where something different becomes possible.

If something here
resonates with you,
that is worth following

The first step is a free 15-minute consultation, a conversation to see if we are a good fit.

Sunlit therapy office with leather seating and an arched window at Botaitis Therapy Group in Santa Barbara