About Deborah

Looking inward is the work

I walk that inward journey with you. Everyone is carrying something. Few people have a place to talk about it.

Deborah Batres, AMFT, integrative psychotherapist in Santa Barbara

My Story

I help people feel more like themselves again

Who I work with

I work with adults in Santa Barbara and online across California, moving through life transitions, grief, trauma, relationship strain, anxiety, depression, and the quieter weight that surfaces when things finally slow down. My work goes beneath the surface. I meet you where you are, and make it safe to set down what you’ve been carrying.

How I got here

Before becoming a therapist, I spent two decades founding startup companies. What I eventually understood was that I’d built a life that looked right and wasn’t mine. Figuring out what I actually wanted took longer than building it had. Many of the people I sit with are somewhere in that same question. I bring that understanding into the therapy room, and this is the most meaningful work I have done.

Training & credentials

I hold an MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University where I completed two practicums, with postgraduate work at New Beginnings Counseling Center focusing on individual and couples work. I am a registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist with advanced training in polyvagal-somatic regulation, emotion-focused and attachment-based work, trauma-informed care, EMDR, and women’s mental health.

How I practice

I’m intentionally integrative, which means I adapt my approach to you rather than fitting you into one model. I don’t think people need fixing. I think most things make sense once you understand where they came from.

What I enjoy

At home, I enjoy adventurous walks with my dogs through the Santa Ynez Valley, along with yoga, Pilates, and the mindfulness practice of gardening.

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How I work

What I believe about how people change

A few things I've come to believe about what actually helps.

You don't need to have the words ready

You don't have to know what's wrong, explain it well, or have done this before. Figuring out what's going on, and what would help, is the work we do together.

Looking fine is not the same as being fine

A lot of people manage well enough that no one asks. What goes unaddressed doesn't go away. It gets louder.

Change begins with curiosity

Not with having it figured out. The willingness to turn toward what isn't working, and to understand it rather than manage it, is where something different becomes possible.

If something here
resonates,
that’s worth a conversation

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Sunlit therapy office with leather seating and an arched window at Botaitis Therapy Group in Santa Barbara